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Sunday, October 2, 2011

又回到了原点

If you noted my statuses and posts on my facebook, most probably you will notice that I was not happy.
Well,as most of my friends will guess it right,what else if it was not due to exams.
My mock exam's result is really bad,hmmp bad but acceptable.
My classmates and schoolmates would probably  kill me if they read this post or think I am annoying or whatsoever because they might think I am ungrateful.
But for the sake of improvement,I shall not compare my results with others,but myself.Isn't?
Compared to others,perhaps I am a lot more better,but if compared to my previous results,this is the worst ever.
Erm Or i shall say same with my very first exam that was being taken during lower six.
I aim to improve in every exam,I made it until this time round. Disappointed of myself.
 I'm not a perfectionist,just a goal chaser.Haha LOL.
What's the point of setting a goal and when you fail to realize it ,you feel nothing?

It's ok to fall,isn't? Most importantly we know how to get up and start everything all over again :)

The disappointment I felt has compelled me to try harder.Motivated me and now I feel much better :')
But at least,I hit 3.5.(Try so hard to comfort myself you know :') )
I really crave for 4.00! major badly!
My biggest obstacles are BM & PA papers!
I only manage to get an A-.Really sad and I have decided to do something about it.
In a fortnight-exactly before second mock-I'll try different ways and oout more efforts in these two subs.

Hopefully,if the God wills it,I'll get it !:))


Saturday, August 20, 2011

Counting down for Pra STPM

再多二十二天,我就要考Pra了。

心里有点紧张,着急以及兴奋。

第一次考到straight As(Mid-year Exam-2As & 2A-),觉得很安慰很感动,

所付出的努力都是值得的。

我一直很努力地把懒散的自己变成个勤恳的学生。

我feel到了,我在变耶!

但有时候会觉得累。。。

累了,就会提醒自己所设的理想以及梦想。

累了,就会像小孩般梦幻地想像未来的自己在高峰回想自己一路走来是多么不容易;同时也赞扬自己所走的每一步都充满了毅力,不断不断的望上爬。

人生就像爬一座山,会累会遇到种种问题。
但不管斜坡有多斜,觉得有多累,风吹雨打,也不可以放掉手里紧握着的绳子。
因为心里很清楚,要是放了就会掉入悬崖,梦想也因此埋没。
只要尽力,不管有多难,一直一直往上爬,就会抵达高峰,然后很有成就感地展放灿烂的笑容!



你也一样,不可以

让自己放弃。

你 可 以 。 你 做 得 到 !







Wednesday, August 10, 2011

感动老婆的一 句话

             张先生一早起来就头痛到要死-因为他昨晚喝得烂醉才回家。
他强迫自己把疲倦不堪的眼睛争开。争开后看到 床头上放了一杯水跟几颗头痛药,然后坐起来有看到了他的衣服已经烫好,叠好在床边。

            因为一起来就看到反常的事情,所以他决定要起身看一看房子其他的地方有没有 什么奇怪的事情。

           他把药吃了。吃的时候发现药下有张纸条,上面写着:“亲爱的,我去买菜,你的早餐已经作好在坐上,趁热吃吧。爱你哦!”

          张先生一头雾水走进了厨房,然后真的看到热腾腾的早餐,还有当天的早报。

          他看着坐在餐桌吃早餐的儿子:“儿子啊,昨天到底 发生了什么事 ?”

          他的儿子回答:“恩。。。你凌辰三点跌跌撞撞,大喊大叫。。。把几个家具都打坏了。。。还撞墙呢!“

         张先生越来越不明白地又问儿子:“那为什么家里有打扫地这么干净然后你妈妈有准备早餐给我吃呢!”

        儿子恍然大悟地说:“哦,你是问那个哦。妈昨天看你醉死地回家,一肚子气把你拉到房里,然后想帮你换衣服,结果在脱你裤子时你骂她一句:“你给我滚远一点,我已经结婚了!”



Wednesday, July 13, 2011

I'm sick :/

 MORNING:
I did not attend class today.When i woke up in the morning,i felt very weak and I can hardly open my tightly shut eyelids.
I walked wobbly and tumbled down the stairs.Scratches were formed at my right elbow and ankle.
That was when U saw my mom and I said...
'Mom,I am not going.I dont' want to go to school.'
Once I finished my sentence,I straight away strode to my room and continue my sleep blissfully.
I 've not taken enough sleep for many days already.
Therefore,I thought I really need to skip today's class.If not,I would feel even worse tomorrow.
I knew it was not an legitimate nor acceptable accuse.But It was a good measure to prevent my health condition from worsening right ? =P
In add,I would be having extra class in the afternoon.TOTALLY TIDAK MAHU.I would be sleeping,most properly,ummp No,I meant certainly.
And most importantly,today's lessons were not important and they usually ended unproductively.
______________________________________AFTER A 7 HOURS SLEEP a.k.a BEAUTY SLEEP...

Yeah,I feel energetic !!
So,I did a little bit of revision on my business studies and some analyses on past years STPM'S business papers just now.
And now,I've to get back to work.

Bye ! =)

Monday, July 11, 2011

What they've told you is not necessarily TRUE.

Walt Disney

The creator of Mickey Mouse,Disneyland and the Walt Disney Company was once fired from his job because he was told that he lacked creativity and imagination.


Orville Wright

Wilbur Wright

When Oville and Wilbur Wright announced their goal to invent the first airplane,scientists and notables told them that their task was impossible.Lord Kelvin ,President of Royal Society,said:'Heavier than air flying machines are impossible.

They will not achieved what they had achieved if they believed what others told them.

Stay Indefatigable and never let others make you feel weak.Continue what you're doing in spite of unpleasant remarks that you've heard.





Accept and treat criticism as constructive opinion.



Sunday, July 10, 2011

未来的你,未来的我,会是如何?

每当想到未来,我会觉得很兴奋。
相信有目标的你,也一样。
我们所梦寐以求的未来会不会成真,就得看我们现在所付出的有多少了。
深信付出越多,得到越多。

前天,I acted like a professional photographer and tried to capture good shots with borrowed digital SLR/DSLR Canon camera.
Really luxuriate deep into it-the process and the result of capturing.
就这样有着想买相机的念头。
主人说他花了差不多两千买下这部相机。
心里想我要存多久才筹到这笔钱。近期内根本就不可能啦。
不过在明年我一定会努力赚钱把它买下的!恩!


It's simply captivating !

除了相机,我也很想拥有elegant-looking leather handbag and wallet.

$ 128 
没错,我喜欢红色!超级雅致!



这两种东西的售价也很高昂。
我忍。。。

明年的一月直九月是我为金钱及经验的打拼时期。
我会申请在律师事务所工作。
接触有关法律的工作能让 我得到一个肯定,看看我是不是真的适合以及喜欢这行。
再多三个月就是我的PRA-STPM。
这场战,我 输 不 起。

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Against all odds

'What?Resit?Frankly,I know her standard alright,I have been teaching her since form 4.'

'No no...I believe in her,I always am...She's a good student,she can make it.'

'Yes yes! Um is a top school,she has to be very good in order to get in.'

Those were genuine,straightforward and unambiguous remarks from my teachers on the idea of resitting MUET(Malaysian University English Test)

I listened,pondered and cogitated their opinions.
Every comment profoundly influenced my decision.
I had finally came to a decision after a night of cogitation on this bothering matter.

I'll take this as a challenge.
Dealing with challenges is the sweetest part in life.
They're the source of strength,passion and enthusiasm.
...
I'll resit MUET.
I'll prove she's wrong.
I just want to be better.

I am ready for a grueling and exhaustive preparation.
Against all odds,I'll make my dream come true!







Saturday, June 18, 2011

OMIGAWD.

I have received my MUET result.I would say it was acceptable but aroused a bit disappointment.I got fairly good marks in Listening,Speaking but not in writing.
Amazingly,my sadness was treated and faded by the good results of my mid-year exam :D
I aimed to break my teacher's record by getting more than 40 correct out of 60 questions in BM Paper 1 and I finally did it-I hit 50/60 during the mid-year exam.
And now I am aiming to get an A instead of an A- in BM :)
I cant stop looking at the marks and smirking gleefully :)

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

This is especially for him ♥

We may fight, and we may cry, but my love for you will never die. 

It takes a minute to like you, an hour to love you, but a lifetime to forget you. 

 Like puzzles,we are meant to be together forever.

Your warmest hug takes all my sadness,sullenness,insecureness and leave the sweetest secureness and sensation of loveliness.


Dont leave me,it kills.



Sunday, April 24, 2011

New background!

Changed the layout of my blog just now.
It looks pretty unique and smells vintage right?
Stop decorating my blog into fancy and eye-catching one,instead,turning into elegance and calm kind of thing.
Today is my second last day of my short holidays.
Two days were spent unproductively.Merely did a little bit of my homework.
They were rather interesting.I learned the way of cutting onion into balance cubes neatly,from my boyfriend who is currently taking diploma in Culinary Arts.He starts to learnt those western side dishes and desserts,before move to main dishes.Besides,I was lucky enough to try out his hand-made delicious sardine rolls.

We cooked fried chicken with spicy alluring sauce too :D Well,I cant agree more that it was really toothsome.Yummmyyy and it looks pretty good externally.Decorated with chili that have squid legs.It was sliced into small tiny parts with it head left uncut.Dip it into water for mins and its sliced parts will beautifully open up,sort of like blooming flower.




Shall get back to work now!Air kisses!

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Muet has just ENDED!

I am so relieved that muet was finally ended.
But then,I probably will re-seat again on August as I think that I dint do well :(
Just wait and see :)


Jessica and I,posing outside the exam hall with MUET Reading Exam Paper.
As what you can see,we were so happy!



Friday, April 15, 2011

MUET

Tomorrow i will seat for MUET exam.
It is undoubtedly an anxiety-laden affair.
It affects what courses I can apply for my degree later on.
Every courses offered in university for bachelor degree comes with a minimum band in MUET.
It acts like a requisite for the applicants to be fulfilled.
For my aimed course,I need at least a band 4,a higher band will be advantageous and helpful :) 

No matter how tough and challenging it is,just strive my heart out!

May God Bless Me.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

obsession and addiction

My lap top's web cam has been my loyal and silent entertainer when i am doing revision in study room for quite sometimes.

Massive reading these days :/

With a flying bird that intended to reduce my tension by grabbing them away.How sweet is that.


Heavy eye bags due to sleepless nights which were fully occupied with massive reading.
Gearing up for the round corner MUET public exam.
Really have to work so hard to gain vocabulary since my words bank is so limited :/
I will do my best to attain a Band 5 and that definitely need hard work.

Buck Up ! Janise loves challenges ! :P

Saturday, April 9, 2011

It needs a title.

If you're a lazy-bones with no sense of punctuality and responsibility,this is specially for you !
No offence,I were the one before.You can consider me as your senior bluek.As if I am proud of It omigod.
Hahaha I am kidding :P


dot..dot...dot... 
A good time management is really important to get our obligations done on time ,especially for those who have a lot of tasks on hands and those tasks will never lessen.
Time is gold.Well I believe that is only for those who really appreciate it and know the values of it.
Formerly,I was a student of the best class of my school.I always in the middle when came to class ranking.I am not that smart and diligent like others in class.I just have to admit it.Nothing wrong about that :) 
If I were given another chance,I 'll change that fact.The fact that I was lazy.
Then I would not had suffered from humiliation from friends for making them feel disappointed after revealing my results to them.
It hurt me so much that i felt wanna dig a hole,a hole that spacious enough to fit me in and need not to look at anyone's expression in order to steal away from them :/
 I assume you understand me as it is something common that we will face in our lives.
Humiliations,embarrassment,disdains,dislikes,dissatisfactions,annoyance,hurts,detriments and whatsoever annoying things.They are the complement of ours life,Aren't they?We should'nt blame for their existence as they aid us to grow.Things that kill make us stronger.
Well,I am kind of stretching to grouches and grumbles right now ...
I just have to really implant this in my mind: what done is done.

Get back to what I actually wanna talk about...
We tend to laze around when we are not aware of or ignore our tasks in hand.
So what I do to deal with that is jot down every single tasks with dateline beside.It's something like checklist or to-do-list.
By doing so,i am so alert of what i should do next.
I get things done and proceed to the next thing.
This keep going in unstoppable mode as task are keep coming.
To avoid being over-ambitious and over-exhausted,I will prioritize my tasks.
Try to put the least for weekdays and the most for weekends.

It is certainly a triable step to be taken to make the most of our times.
You may try it out :) 
You really have to eradicate the attitude of delays and procrastinations for your own good :3 

But then,dont tire yourself out yahh.We need relaxations to ease off our tensions :) ! 


I am so shy to tell you that dating with my boyfriend is my form of relaxation ! Wheewhitt haha.











What a day !

Today is Hari Permuafakatan where parents have to go to school for PIBG meeting and follow by getting the report card from teachers.


I got 3.67 for my first TOV 1 and a band 4 for my MUET.Nearly get Band 5,as nearly as just need another correct answer for reading section.Haiz.


After attended the meeting and got my report card,I went to Boulevard to buy some reference books.
I end up buying a bargain as well,an unexpected one.


It was a BATA stock clearance sales beside the exit pathway,We had a temporarily illegal parking at the side and went down to have a look.


My sister bought a pair of black shoes,cost RM15.A bit dusty but still in well condition.Ah save RM15 for that.
I have to  proclaim a good of mine too,which is a pair of hiking shoes.Original price is around RM60.Usually exceeds RM50.


And I own it with only 2 red notes.Can u imagine how much I have saved ?? I smirked so hard that I keep telling everyone it is so worthwhile to buy it since I have to seat for ujian sikap very soon.A test for a pre-kingscout,A 5days 4 nights hike.


You cant agree more that it is a BARGAIN hiak hiak.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

牛仔很忙

我现在真的很想去睡觉
能的话就不会再玩电脑了
我好累 T_T

刚做完·我的英文练习
乱做一场
只想把它赶完

明天是RESEARCH PAPER DISCUSSION
带我的老师是校长
所以一定都会把交代好的东西做完
明天得给他看的是METHOLOGY CHAPTER
好难,得花上很长的时间
天啊,我还没做完啊啊 T_T

还有还有
商业科的考卷订正
差不多全部都的改 T_T
没拿满分的都的改
我的老师很严
根本就很难拿满分嘛 !

今晚也得练舞
下个星期六有表演,在KINGWOOD HOTEL
还没去过勒~~
由于这舞蹈是没学过的
得花很多时间和努力
。。。我的DOWNLOADER不懂干嘛的
用了几个小时的时间才成功把跳舞VIDEOS下载下来
真的是~

不过哦
有件事弄到我到现在都还在开心
我这次的考试考到不错嘻嘻嘻!
差一科就全A 了
好开心哦!
不过嘛
被老师批评我的国语作文很烂
我还满伤心的
这可是我一直以来最拿手的科目
这次
被老师一讲
才发现我是高估自己了 :'(
我会加把劲
掌握这科
下次突破记录

我去做功课&跳舞了
拜拜


我好想睡觉 T_____________T


Monday, March 14, 2011

S E N I L I T Y

I have an elegant red diary which I jot down every tasks from sending a email to attending a meeting in it.
I am so forgetful that I have to refer to it everyday to check out uncompleted and to-do tasks in it.
I am too young to be a senile woman.Omigosh.
Bless me!

Just let it go

Sometimes,in order to possess something,we have to let go something.








'You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on."
Oprah Winfrey

Saturday, March 12, 2011

A Holidays filling!

My holiday is officially started with  a fascinating and riveting reading on a book entitled FOR THE LOVE OF A SON,by Jean Sasson.I have just finished its prologue and first chapter,just like what I expected and hope for,they are as compelling as the summary provided on the back cover!And so,I am writing to recommend this book to all of you who constantly reading my blog post.Aik!

This is how its cover looks like.


Anyone with the slightest interest in human rights will find this book heart-wrenching.-Betty Mahmoody.

Her comment on this book attracted and convinced me that this is the one that matched with what I have been looking for.Something about human rights with a inspiring heroin inside.
This book’s heroin who named Maryam is a Afghan woman.Living in a place where women are nothing but born to please the men,Her family and her went through a real hardship in her life.Yet,it is a true story!
And below is the excerpt of the summary:
A new life of freedom seemed within her greasp but her father arranged a traditional marriage to a fellow Afghan,who turned out to be a violent man.Beaten,raped and abused,Maryam found joy in the birth of a baby son.But then her brutal husband stole him away far beyong his mother’s reach.For many years she searched for her lost son,while civil war and Taliban oppression raged back home in Afrhanistan.
Grab one in popular bookstore now!It currently offering a 20% rebate for members,while stock last people!After rebate,it cost about RM30.They are displayed on the front rack labeled ‘just arrived’ or something like that.
Dot dot dot..
Remarkable thing of the day:
3 books of Sherlock series only cost RM24!!!!!Real bargains!!
I would have buy them if they are in English.
Damn,why is it Chinese books are always so cheap and English’s are so relatively expensive.
At that very moment,I got angry and emotional.But then I successfully brushed them off with these:
They’re in Dollar. And their shipments are much more costly.
And they are mostly authentic.
Ah damn right.I am just depressed because I could not own books that I long and crave for.If only I am rich.I would shop that bookstore everyday.And those stacked receipts will be as high as Petronas Twin Tower.Bahahahaha XD LOL !

Btw,I only start to read novels when I was 18.Late reader!

Lastly,lots of loves to my sister who is studying at IMU,in west Msia. :)
Miss you darling!Wish you all the best on journey of tackling 'doctor-to-be' there as your bf ! Dongdong XP kidding!




Sunday, February 20, 2011

Another shot

Set a higher aim for my another shot.

Dear God,I need your blessing.


My short term goal needs a realization.


You cant just think about.You got to feel it,become it,live it.
And most importantly,you got to DO it.-Ernie Chen

I can do it :)

It is time to put my words into action.
Strive hard!

3 weeks of insufficient sleeps,continuous reading,endless exercising,less phone calls and messages and zero outing!

Destressing .....
Shout out LOUD:

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
And so,i end this post with a ROAR!

Friday, February 18, 2011

My boy's definition :)


A boy who will hold his girlfriend around the waist and kiss her neck and whisper in her ear ''you're beautifull''.
 If his freinds say something nasty about her he will flip. text her first. tell her every night he loves her. texts her good
 morning beautiful. makes the effort. not flirt with other girls. compliment everything about her.
 If she wants a hug, hush up and hold her like she is gold.




I love YOU Darling :)

我想你!

好久没写BLOG了
最近真的好忙
忙功课
忙课外活动
忙RESEARCH PAPER
忙BUSINESS PROPOSAL
现在又接近考试
好有压力~
FORM 6 的学生就是这样
没办法。。。
这次考试比之前早些准备
希望会考到好些

小莲加油!

Sunday, February 6, 2011

异地恋 是幸福的 :)

有许多人不同意,毕竟分隔两地,不能照顾依偎着对方,心里的失落总是有的罢。

但是很多异地恋的人确实是幸福的,比任何人都幸福。

两个人能整天腻在一起,固然很幸福,他们很少会寂寞,但是也很少有绵长的思念。思念本身就是一种最大的幸福,记得自来也大人曾经对名人说,思念你的人就是你的归处。

拥有异地恋的人是幸运的,因为你拥有了一个愿意和你一起坚持努力的人,你拥有了一颗能和你有着相同执着和梦想的心,你拥有了一份强烈到有勇气挑战可恶的距离的爱,这难道不是一种幸福吗?

每当一个人静静的时候,想到有一个人和你一样在坚守这如此脆弱的爱情,那种温暖,不是异地恋的人是无法体会的,那是一种心灵无声的沟通,是无条件的信赖。茫茫人海中,能找到这样一个无条件信赖自己的人,这难道不是一种幸福吗?

两个人常常在一起,难免会大意,他们常常会一起吃饭,一起逛街,一起上课,但是却常常忽略了心灵上的沟通。对于一份真正的爱情,沟通才是最重要的,它能保持爱情的新鲜感,能让对方了解现在爱着的是怎样的一个人。只有了解了对方,爱情里才不会有误解,才不会有错失了的爱情。所以,异地恋的人有了爱情的优势,他们很久都见不了面,有了心事,有了难过就在电话里倾诉,他们的每一次交谈都相当于一次交心,因为彼此都能了解对方的想念,所以,在他们之间很少有了误会,彼此都懂得了谅解,懂得了宽容。这难道不是一种幸福吗?

甜言蜜语也算的爱情的润滑剂吧,没有一对恋人可以有像异地恋人那样拥有繁多的机会说甜言蜜语,每次电话里,总是无意中会说一些“想你”“等你”“爱你”,即使话不多的人也一样会说,因为彼此爱着,因为目前只有“语言”这样一种工具可以表达自己的心情,因为爱的表达,其实都单一。所以,能坚持异地恋的人都是深切的爱着的,这样的爱在时间的河流里平淡却激烈,我想这是所有人都会羡慕的爱。拥有着这样的爱的你,难道不幸福吗?

在爱情里我最不怕的就是距离,只要真正爱着,终归是能在一起。是啊,距离在那么深切的爱里算什么?什么也不是。如果你们因为异地恋就轻易分手了,千万不要把罪过怪在距离上,你应该庆幸,自己离开了的一个并不真正爱你的人,因为在爱的面前,距离真的什么也不是。所以,如果你的爱人也在遥远的地方,不要觉得寂寞,不要觉得委屈,要庆幸,你用寂寞和思念换来了一份真正的爱,那是别人求之不得的爱。

如果你们在一个班,

一起自习,

一起上课下课,

一起泡茶一起记笔记,

离开一秒也无所谓,还有下一秒;

如果你们在一个学校,可以

一起去图书馆,

一起去露天电影场,

一起进食堂一起看星星看月亮,

一起跑八百一起手牵手进小树林,

一天不见,至少还有明天,至少还可以一起毕业;

如果仅仅在一个城市,也还可以

一起逛街,

一起吃冰一起玩电玩,

一起坐公交一起乘电梯,

可以一起想起城市某家小店某个好玩的去处,

一个星期不见也会想念,毕竟不是每个星期都有空,每个节日都放假;

可是,有些人一刻不曾想念。

不思量,自难忘。

不敢想念,因为不敢忘记。

可是可是,有些手很久很久没有办法牵,有些依依不舍吻只能对着电话……

下雨啦,有没有人给她撑伞;

碗里有他最喜欢吃的肉才想起来不能夹给他;

夜里醒了,因为梦到她的身边有另一个他给披衣服;

逛街脚疼了,那个心疼的人不再提醒说,回家吧;

学习累了,想捏捏她的肉肉的脸告诉她,其实你不用减肥,一点不胖;

有了古怪的点子,留着忍着,打电话时告诉他,然后听他说,好,下次我们见面时一起……

下次,下次有多久?

一个人裹紧大衣一个人吹吹风,

一个人承受另一个的理想,

一个人奋斗为一个人的承诺,

一个人左手握右手,

一个人坚强一个人守着信仰,

一个人等着,等着一句话:下次见面时一起!

“距离是一份考卷,测量相爱的誓言,最后会不会实现。

我们为爱还在学沟通的语言,学著谅解学著不流泪,等到我们学会飞,飞越黑夜和考验,日子就要从孤单里毕业,我们用多一点点的辛苦,来交换多一点点的幸福。”

愿那些在不同的地方读书,不同的地方工作的恋人未来幸福。

有时候

爱情…在指缝间承诺…指缝在爱情下交缠.

不在一起很小的一件事情也会变的天旋地转

不在一起每天抱着电话等待那一个电话或者一条短信,在那中间享受一点幸福

不在一起千万不要轻易生气,否则会比在一起处理起来麻烦上千倍上万倍

不在一起假如你生气了请你好好倾听,心平气和,相信会有人为你着急

不在一起假如他(她)生气了,不要去解释,说些“好听的”,因为那些比解释灵

不在一起多为彼此着想,站在对方的立场考虑事情,毕竟谁也看不到谁

不在一起.

在一起時用心去看著TA的眼睛,記住那個愛你的模樣

在一起時用心去拉著TA的手,那是一種溫度.

在一起時用心去珍惜屬於你們的時光

在一起時……

异地恋,请深爱!

勇气

异地恋,首先需要的是勇气,一种敢于挑战现实的勇气,一种能够承担任何风险的勇气,一种能够坦然面对失败的勇气。要明白,现实是一股强大而又无形的力量,我们都无法预计将要发生的情况,但可以拿出勇气来与这股力量抗衡,我们也可以拿出勇气来接受失败的结果。

忠诚

在异地没有恋人的相伴很容易产生一种心理上的孤独,而这种孤独会勾起内心的渴望以及欲念。也只有绝对的忠诚才能抵挡住来自花花世界的诱惑。忠诚不是“傻”,它是对感情的尊重和对自己的尊重;忠诚不是“痴”,它是一种高尚人格的提炼;忠诚不是“呆”,它是一种道德和一种责任。

信任

异地恋给了对方一种遐想的空间,同时也会让对方产生一种不安全感,并引起对对方的胡乱猜疑,而爱情往往在这些猜疑中慢慢地被消溶殆尽。因此,信任是情人之间互相尊重平等关系的体现,建立信任的桥梁是巩固异地恋最行之有效的方法。而缺乏信任的爱情只会在彼此猜疑中变得不堪一击。

理解

理解是建立在信任的基础上,没有信任就无从去理解,不要因为一方工作的繁忙或者其他事情的缠绕没有及时联系而大发雷霆,要知道,现实的压力不会让大家轻松过活,所以要尽量克制自己的情绪,学会理解对方,并体谅对方的辛苦,在精神上做彼此的支柱。这样,理解也会成为两人感情升温的调节器。

沟通

异地恋除了时空带来的距离,心理上的距离也不能忽视,沟通是维持感情并拉近距离的最好方式。不当的沟通可以让距离变成一种障碍,而适当的沟通则可以让距离变成一种动力,所以沟通既是门艺术,也是门学问。

目标

异地恋应该锁定一个目标,而不应该自生自灭,其实异地恋最终的目标就是创造相同生活的条件,因为相爱的人终不能生活在美丽却遥不可及的两个环境里,并蒂的莲花终是要生长在同一片泥土里,既然相爱就要相守。不论如何,都应该全力争取。

忍耐

异地恋等待多过相伴的日子,所以两个人都要忍耐寂寞,忍耐没有拥抱的寒冷,忍耐每天只能倒数计时的焦急。但是要知道,异地恋就是在和时间赛跑,你坚持住了,就胜利了,被时间打败了,就会一辈子错过那个人。所以一定要在异地恋情马拉松中再坚持一下,在坚持一下,只要你能跑完,不需要取得名次,你就赢了!


by~特木薯